The first image that comes to your head after seeing the title is probably of a bride with a group of woman all dressed in the same outfit.
Alot of times, brides choose bridesmaid without knowing exactly why… They do it because they see that’s how it’s been done so why not.
Well now we will tell you why you need a bridesmaid. On your big day, you definitely do not want to have to worry about matters arising that has no business with the event planner. Like holding your train, calming down your nerves, dapping your face without making a mess of your makeup, bringing life to the party.
Basically, all you should be doing on your wedding day is being happy. That’s it.
Now dear chosen Bridesmaid do you add to the brides headache or do you take away from it?
What kind of bridesmaid are you?
1) The Career bridesmaid –
She’s constantly uploading pictures of the latest addition to her large wardrobe of bridesmaid dresses. She’s experienced and comes in handy.
2) The show stepper –
This is the life of the party. You don’t have her, you might just be doomed to having a boring set of babes with nobody to ginger them and make the party lit.
3) The emotional one –
This is the chief of the “awwwwwwww” gang, the tissue consumer. How will you know you and Bae look great together in your day if you don’t have this madam on your team. I mean, she’s staring at you both and she just loves love and her waterworks is there to confirm it.
4) The Honest one –
Ask her if your makeup is good and her reply might either get you looking for an emergency makeup artist orrrr your makeup artist might get an extra bonus. You want truth at all times, but if you are emotional please leave this woman out of your team or better still, don’t ask her any questions.
5) The calm one who’s ontop of “it” –
This is the organized one. She’s the one to be your maid of honour. She’s ontop of every situation at all times. The order and sanity they bring to the big day can’t be underrated. This one deserves a special bag of goodness after she has done a good job of prioritizing your happiness despite you being an ass.
6) The fresh from a breakup bridesmaid –
The “God When” headmaster. She’s happy for you but unhappy for herself. She’s your close pal and she’s hurting. As much as you love her, don’t let her pain to stop your joy. She will be fine. Dear hurt bridesmaid, please don’t use your blues to scatter the brides reggae.
7) Aunty Selfie King –
Her phone is in a selfie position every 10 minutes. She’s constantly in awe of her beauty and just have to capture every moment. If you are not careful, a picture of you undressed would be out for all to see. Caution her to ensure her selfie love doesn’t infringe on someone else’s privacy.
8) The “time will wait for me” sister –
The one that believes the whole world will wait till she’s ready. No no no. Time is an important factor and that’s the last thing to be compromised on your big day. Please dear bridesmaid, be civil and punctual. It’s the brides day.